feel secure in your relationship again.
Affair and Infidelity Therapy in California and Washington
Has there been a betrayal in your relationship?
Maybe you’ve recently discovered your partner has been having an affair. Perhaps you had some suspicions, but your partner assured you they were just a friend; or maybe this came out of nowhere. You feel numb, angry, and devastated all at the same time. It feels like everything you thought was true suddenly isn’t. You may be wondering if you can ever trust your partner again. Your self-worth has plummeted and you feel taken for granted. You may find yourself struggling to focus on anything else, constantly replaying the details of this in your mind. You can’t sleep or eat. You lay awake at night going over all the details again and again. You can’t stop worrying that nothing will be the same ever again.
you’re beginning to notice the impact of this in every facet of your life:
Unable to focus at work or in your day-to-day life
Worried you’re going to break down in tears at any moment
Wondering where to go from here
Affair recovery therapy can help.
It may feel impossible now, but you can make sense of things again. You can find a path forward. You can feel secure in your life again. And I can help you get there.
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Specialized therapy that focuses on repairing an affair, betrayal, or rupture in the relationship. I have specialized training that allows me to take you through this three-part process.
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The first three sessions will be assessment-focused so that I learn more about you, your partner, and your relationship. The first session is a joint session, and then the subsequent two sessions I will meet with each of you individually. This will allow me to get to know both of you and understand your relationship so I can ensure I tailor sessions to your specific needs. After this, we will begin the three-step process of Affair Recovery: Atonement, attunement, and attachment.
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No. Infidelity is a form of what we call betrayal trauma. This can occur as a result of a sexual or emotional relationship with another person, a hidden addiction, or financial infidelity. Essentially, betrayal trauma occurs when there has been a breach of trust from our partner that threatens the relationship.
At the end of the day, I want you to know:
You can rebuild trust.
You can begin healing.
You can chart a path forward.
Is Affair recovery right for you?
Affair counseling is a good fit for you if you…
Have experienced an affair or other betrayal in your relationship
Are struggling with trust or security
Notice that past hurts don’t feel fully repaired
What we’ll work on
With affair counseling, you can…
Rebuild trust in your relationship
Find new ways of strengthening your relationship
Recommit and reconnect